YOUR FIRST MESSAGE TO ME MUST INCLUDE A REFERENCE TO SOMETHING SPECIFIC IN MY PROFILE
|Location||Norfolk, Norfolk City, Virginia, United States
|Age||52, Female, 6'1" (186 cm)
|Intentions||See what Happens
I am looking for a wild man, a musician, one who was formally trained and preferably one who is equally comfortable playing jazz and legit, but who isn’t put off by popular styles.
This man must be absolutely confident in his sexuality and sexual identity, because though I am an attractive woman, I am also transgender, and that’s something a lot of men are afraid of because it challenges their own sense of manhood. (After all, what does it mean if a man is attracted to a trans woman? You have to answer this for yourself.) While I prefer not to build my own identity around the fact that I’m trans, I never deny it. My friends and colleagues know I’m trans, but I pass well in public (even though I seem very tall in a room filled with short people). I am looking for a partner, someone to date and maybe marry one day. And that partner needs to be secure in his own masculinity. If you hold any prejudice against transgender women, move on.
I play double bass, mostly jazz but I do legit work occasionally. I am a music professor and music librarian. I hold to MMs, one in performance and one in musicology. I used to be an orchestra director in public schools. I also play mandolin and fiddle. I get really bored around non-musicians. Ultimately I’d love to make music together.
I am very smart. I like to talk about the universe and our place in it. I love sci-fi. I love the natural sciences. I love comedy. I have a corny sense of humor. I love playing music on my front porch, or around a campfire. I love road trips, especially if I’m not having to do all the driving. And if you’re comfortable bringing a sidearm in the vehicle, so much the better.
I am a wild woman in a sense—I’m not hesitant to try new things. And I’ve done some crazy things in my day. But I am also conservative in that I don’t trust others easily— I’ve had to fend for myself for a long time. I’m looking for someone who will take care of me, and whom I can take care of.
My Identity & Personality
||Marriage Views||Marriage is Important|
||Languages||English / No Second Language|
My Appearance & Lifestyle
|Hair Color||Changes Frequently
||Have Children||Don't have Children|
||Want Children||Open / Undecided|
||Have Pet||Have a Cat|
|Food Preference||Eat Anything
|Exercise Habits||Prefer Not Say
|Body Art||Best Ask Me
Astronomy; aircraft (not an expert but I think they’re cool); weather; architecture and industrial engineering. I love animals. I love children. I love pretty things.
A first date would involve meeting at a nice restaurant for dinner and drinks and see where it goes.
Jerks who don’t read my profile first. Come on, guys, you’re embarrassing yourselves. Stop wasting my time!