Musician Dating

Musician Dating



My Details

LocationNorfolk, Norfolk City, Virginia, United States StatusSingle
Age53, Female, 6'1" (186 cm) SeekingMale
IntentionsSee what Happens PersonalityChallenging
Site Star SignLibra

About Me

NOTE: If you use the phrase "I will love to..." in any part of your message I will automatically eliminate you from consideration. Any man who contacts me should be absolutely confident in his sexuality and sexual identity, because though I am an attractive woman, I am also transgender, and that’s something a lot of men are afraid of because it challenges their own sense of manhood. (After all, what does it mean if a man is attracted to a trans woman? You have to answer this for yourself.) While I prefer not to build my own identity around the fact that I’m trans, I never deny it. My friends and colleagues know I’m trans, but I pass well in public (even though I seem very tall in a room filled with short people). I am looking for a partner, someone to date and maybe marry one day. And that partner needs to be secure in his own masculinity. If you hold any prejudice against transgender women, move on. I play double bass, mostly jazz but I do legit work occasionally. I am a music professor and music librarian. I hold to MMs, one in performance and one in musicology. I used to be an orchestra director in public schools. I also play mandolin and fiddle. I get really bored around non-musicians. Ultimately I’d love to make music together. I am very smart. I like to talk about the universe and our place in it. I love sci-fi. I love the natural sciences. I love comedy. I have a corny sense of humor. I love playing music on my front porch, or around a campfire. I love road trips, especially if I’m not having to do all the driving. And if you’re comfortable bringing a sidearm in the vehicle, so much the better. I am a wild woman in a sense—I’m not hesitant to try new things. And I’ve done some crazy things in my day. But I am also conservative in that I don’t trust others easily— I’ve had to fend for myself for a long time. I’m looking for someone who will take care of me, and whom I can take care of.

My Identity & Personality

EthnicityWhite (Caucasian) RomanceOccasionally Romantic
NationalityUnited States Marriage ViewsMarriage is Important
OccupationProfessional LanguagesEnglish / No Second Language
EducationMasters Degree ReligionNon-Religious

My Appearance & Lifestyle

Hair ColorChanges Frequently Have ChildrenDon't have Children
Eye ColorBlue Want ChildrenOpen / Undecided
Body TypeAverage Have PetHave a Cat
Food PreferenceEat Anything Drinking HabitsSocially
Exercise HabitsPrefer Not Say Smoking HabitsSocially
Body ArtBest Ask Me Drug HabitsSocially


A first date would involve meeting at a nice restaurant for dinner and drinks and see where it goes.


Jerks who don’t read my profile first. Come on, guys, you’re embarrassing yourselves. Stop wasting my time!

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